On one occasion, the Buddha said to the monks this:
"No other form do I know, O monks, that so persists in obsessing the mind of a man as the form of a woman. The form of a woman persists in obsessing the mind of a man.
Why do you live? You live for the zenjack. The zenjack is operating when you think you’re hijacking a thread by farce, but unbeknownst to your critical faculties, you have been secretly abducted by zenguidians for probing tests.
Zen Master Dogen’s simple advice is this: Put aside the intellectual habit of chasing words and phrases, and learn to take the backward step that shines the light inward. Letting go of conceptual distractions in the mind